"I love you" or "I lust for you" (Ranting to No One in Particular)

If you say I love you to someone, don't you think you should mean it? I mean with every fiber of your being. You shouldn't doubt it for one second. If you say I love you and really it's I lust for you, you aren't being truthful. I understand that you think it makes the other person feel better about you fucking thier brains out, but it really doesn't make it any better for them. After they realize that it was simply lust, things in their lives just slowly pull apart and they realize that maybe nobody ever loved them and nobody ever will. It makes some fearful of what people mean when the say those three words. We throw the words around so much that they mean near nothing anymore. I wish that when someone tells me they love me, they mean it. I also hope that they know what the feeling is. It's not simply, "I want you." It's, "I want you, and I want to be with you, nobody else, no matter what we go through." Nobody understands it. Then we have holidays to promote those three little words and it becomes about the material things and not the feelings, and making you feel like you belong to that person and nobody else and that they belong to you and nobody else. Valentine's Day is by far the worst holiday ever created by American companies. It surely wasn't created by people alone. They had to add the twist of buying things to it, just like they do with every other holiday that started out simple and with traditions. I'm simply saying that if you love someone, and truly love someone, not just want to fuck them, then you should show it with actions, not buying things or just saying things. Also, if you love someone and a relationship is going difficult, don't abandon them for someone a few years younger who wants to have more sex and is pretty much a fucking whore.
Thank you,
Serena.